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The basic message we want to get across is: We miss you.
We care about you. We invite you to take another look at our Catholic
community and we will be there to welcome you.
We need to exhibit an attitude of openness, love,
warmth, compassion and caring. Many Catholics don't think of inactives
as their concern. We are members of Christ's body and members of a body
have a stake in one another. Invitation
can mean everything. How is the church, our parish impoverished by their
absence?
Have process goals rather than result goals.
Conversion is a process. We must respect the person's freedom. "Caring
not curing."
Ask yourself, "What are we bringing them back to,
inviting them to?" Once they return, how do we assist with their
re-integration?
Inactive and alienated Catholics need to tell their
story. There is healing in the sharing. We need to listen in a
non-judgmental way. This is the beginning of reconciliation.
Don't hesitate to apologize for the church. Be aware
of occasions to seek out the alienated and inactive Catholic. |